LIFE is about constant change, sometimes it’s painful, sometimes it’s blissful, but most of the time it’s both. There will be countless questions and the answers we find are never what we had in mind. Sometimes things are left unspoken, unheard and unintentionally unshared. People tend to keep everything in and then self-destruct. Why? Because it is not easy to trust people. Trust is often mistaken as weakness. Who’s to blame? It is us. No one else can fix us, but us. Life is made up of what we are used to. Change is something all of us are afraid of. But living a great life is not about routine it is about doing something rare, something we have not done before. To think about it, no one can really define life and love. You can only imagine it… how it feels like when you are in it.
LOVE is governed by the hypothalamus part of our brain. As well as with hunger, pain and sex drive. Love cannot be destroyed. Love cannot be created. It has been with us, always… just like the wind.
About HAPPINESS, most of us struggle to find this so-called happiness. It does not mean that if we have everything we wish for, we’re happy. Real happiness is not about everything being perfect. Happiness is no matter how shitty your life is, you managed to smile and move forward. It means that you see life beyond it’s imperfections. Happiness is contentment. We have to realize that we must stop pushing ourselves to be happy. Real and lasting happiness takes time. It starts from within us, keep letting life shitty-ness in and you will see how strong and happy you are after. One last thing, share happiness with people you love. It does not mean anything at all if you cannot share it to anyone.
TREAT PEOPLE NICELY. Say thank you, say sorry. Apologize whenever you need to. Say thank you whenever you need to. Say thank you to the nice cashier who served you at Mcdo. GIVE to the less fortunate people you see around you. EVERY thoughtful thing COUNTS. Stop being an ASS to people, you do not have the right to do that.
BE POSITIVE. STAY POSITIVE. Surround yourself with positive people. It will pay off eventually, you’ll see.
MISTAKES. REJECTION. INSANITY.
Imperfections are important, yes it is, just as mistakes are. We only get better and wiser by learning from mistakes and we get to be real by being imperfect. You live, you learn.
REJECTION. It is one of the most poisonous element in our lives. It is like being neglected. It happens when some people only see us as one of their OPTIONS. You get the point. J
INSANITY. If all else fails, we become insane. We lose ourselves, the pressures, the burden and all that melodramatic crap. But when were back from being insane, we do not know what to do when we get there. We do not know how to start being normal again.
CHANCES. RISKS. We are afraid to take chances, take big steps. We get scared and we chicken out when we encounter choices that are hard to decide on. So we tend to RUN. Then, the word IMPOSSIBLE comes up. We must understand that IMPOSSIBLE is just a BIG word. Impossible is a dare, a dare to step up and say “I CAN DO THIS, YOU BITCH!” IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING.
Life has it’s own ups and downs. There comes to a point when we just want to breakdown and stop everything we started. When we have been hurt so much, shattered into pieces. Life can sometimes be tiring. Life is not easy it was never a fairytale. Life can be a pain in the arse but you cannot just give up. NEVER EVER GIVE UP GIRL! And if it is really that CRAPPY, forget about it and move forward.
When we fall, we lose everything, but there is still someone who can back us up. Someone who will pick us up, take us out of the rain, the pain. It is HIM. Our faith in GOD will never fail us. It is what separates us from what we are and who we are.
So hear me out, life is about giving hope and loving all of the people around us. Just be yourselves, you, you, and YOU! It’s all we have, it’s all we need. LOVE. Love and pain exist together. Just like in the song IRIS by The Goo Goo Dolls, “Yeah, you bleed just to know you’re alive.”
Life is what we make it. It is unique. Just like each of us. Love makes the world go round. So let’s live, love, and take what ever pain it brings.
